10 things

Hi Kiddo! Your dad and I were off work yesterday and today and it is heaven. Not that we have done a whole lot but it is so nice to be off work. Your dad has still been getting some phone calls and emails because he is a superstar right now. They published 2nd quarter sales and he rocked it. He was 5th in the region and 29th in the whole country!! He is so proud of his success and I am happy for him because it took him awhile to get his feet on the ground with all the turmoil we have had going on in the past year. Not only is he a rockstar but he cooked me breakfast this morning - biscuits and gravy. How spoiled am I? Don't expect warm breakfasts when you arrive - grab a box of cereal and like it :) Later, we are going to go to acupuncture and then I think we are going to see a movie.

So, a website I visit features various scrapbook designers and they always ask them for 10 things they love and 10 things they hate. I thought I would share that with you today about your mom. I told your dad I had a job for him to do the same list and I think he about stroked out. Don't expect to see any commentary from him any time soon. He said he is "a man of few words."

10 things I love -
1) Sleep and all things related to sleep - my tempurpedic bed, the cold side of the pillow, dreams, ambien, nappies, everything.
2) Scrapbooking
3) Reading
4) Music
5) Chocolate & sweets!
6) Most of my family & my friends (including your dad & our furry family) - see kiddo, you can pick your friends so you should love all of them. However, you are stuck with your family and unfortunately, we do have a couple of crazies in ours!
7) Getting the mail - each visit to the mailbox has unlimited potential to give a big surprise. Even though it usually ends up being junk mail and bills.
8) Vacation - I love to travel but also just plain days off work. I love being paid to not work.
9) Seeing you (& and all of our other babies) moving all over on the ultrasounds. It is so fun to see you up on the screen and wonder at the amazement that you are doing all of that in my tummy & I can't even feel it.
10) Meat - Beef, Chicken, Pork, some fish... I could never be a vegetarian. Not in my make up!

10 things I hate -
1) Things that disturb my sleep - noise, light, the TV being on, your dad snoring, the temperature being too hot or cold, having to get up and go to the bathroom all of the time, the alarm clock...
2) Pregnancy "morning sickness" - who are they kidding? It is 24x7. Anyone that has it just in the morning is darn lucky.
3) Mushrooms and raw tomatoes (unless they are in a really good salsa)
4) People that eat like pigs, don't exercise and are skinny!
5) When your dad reads his blackberry or dials the phone when he is driving. Drives me nuts that he is losing his focus when he could crash the car.
6) 5-6 months out of the year in Nebraska when it is so hot that you want to die or so cold that you think you have frost bite.
7) People that always want something for nothing - they find a hair in their dinner and want to eat there free for the rest of their lives. Also, I really dislike this sense of entitlement that seems to be so prevalent in society. I admit that I have a touch of it but the extent to which I see it now is crazy!
8) While I am not a political person, I really hate the way our country is being ran right now. I truly am scared for our economy and the fallout of all this spending when we don't have any cash. I always said it didn't matter to me because I didn't have any kids but if we keep it up, you are hosed!
9) People who don't take accountability for their own lives and actions. I guess that kind of goes with the entitlement thing but we are all responsible for the course of our lives. Buck up and take responsibility!
10) Shaving my legs - while I think you are a girl, if you are a boy, you won't have to worry about this :)

The Cvilikas boys

As birthdays, events and special memories pop in my head, I will take the time to introduce you to your family. Brian and Brandon are my Colorado cousins. When we were pregnant last year, Brian said he couldn't wait to "be an uncle." So, we jokingly call him your uncle half the time and your cousin the other half. I would love for you to feel like your cousins (Brian, Brandon, Jeremy & Cory) are your uncles. You also get another aunt out of the deal in Brandi :) Anyway, on to those crazy Cvilikas boys...

When Brian was born, he lived across the street from me. I could run over to Aunt Val's house any time. Shortly after he was born, their family moved to Colorado. I spent many summers and school vacations in Colorado. I would babysit him then, when Brandon came, I babysat him one summer too. I don't think either of them remember because they were so young but I have fond memories of hanging out with them. We would go on trips and to the pool and various other places in Colorado. As they got older, obviously, I got older too. Family timed seemed so much less important than friend and boy time so my visits became more infrequent.

When your dad and I started dating, they were just young pups - 11 and 8. He has also been able to watch them grow up. I am not going to sugar coat it and I will probably have to debate this with them later but they had quite a few years where they were punks :) They were growing up and we were already old. However, as the years went on and they grew into themselves and matured, they have turned into fine young men that I am proud to claim as my cousins. Both of them have graduated from College. Brian is pursuing his dreams - playing college then pro soccer. Brandon is figuring out what he is going to do with his career and still managing to have fun in between his internship and work. Both of them are fun to be around - whether it is playing games, going to the casino, having a few drinks or just visiting. They have an infectious spirit and I hope they are still as rambunctious when you are able to spend time with them. I hope that Brian can teach you how to be more athletic and believe in your abilities. I hope Brandon can teach you how to be a hard worker but yet still how to enjoy life to the fullest. They both can teach you how to have a big heart & spirit. They are both quick witted and can teach you how to be a smart aleck - as if you won't learn about that enough from your mom and dad :) I feel like I could go to either of them in tears, lay my head on their shoulder and let it all out. They would probably let me get it out then make some silly comment to make me laugh and make it all go away. The nice thing about your cousins is that they are both taller than me so it makes it especially easy to lay my head on their shoulder if I need to. haha. You already have the genetics to hold your liquor but if you need help in learning how to drink or do shots (when you are of legal age of course), Uncle Brian can help you out there too. His advice is to take the shot, he has a proper breathing technique that he can teach you so shots go down smooth. I can't remember which way it is but I will take a guess - I think it is breathe in thru your mouth and breathe out your nose but I will get that confirmed for you.

These days, we see the boys only a few times a year. Each time, we try really hard to carve out a day or night for "Cousin time." I cherish those times with the Cvilikas boys and, now, with Erica. Your cousin/uncle, was lucky enough to snag himself a good girlfriend in Erica. We have welcomed her into the family as if she was born into it. Erica also has a big heart and kind spirit. She can teach you how to put up with the punk boys in your life :)


Your Uncle Brian Doing his job!


If Brian is your uncle, then this is Aunt Brandi and Uncle Brandon.

11 week dr appointment

Hi Kiddo! You were the star of the show today at the doctor's office. You have officially transformed from a little blob with a heartbeat to a little baby with a body! The doctor said all was good - your heartbeat is strong, your development is on target, your amniotic fluid is good! We go back and see him on 7/17 and then the surgery is 7/24.

You were fun to watch today - you were "rocking and rolling" all over the place according to our esteemed perinatologist, Bonehead. You were flipping all over and you were kicking your legs all around. Your dad said you are about the size of a small jalapeno pepper now.



I got all dolled up in my new cute white and yellow summer sundress. Your dad said I looked like an angel (Yeah, I was wondering what he wanted, too). I had been feeling "off" all morning and actually had your dad drive because I wasn't feeling well. It was a good thing too - I ended up getting sick in the car on the way home. You must have been rebelling against all that poking and prodding he was doing with the ultrasound wand. Thankfully, no stains on the new beautiful dress :) One positive about getting sick is that I actually feel better for a little bit.

That is about it from the doctor. We did slip a little hint in there that it sure would be nice if you were a 2009 baby. He said he could be bought :)

11 weeks & your first road trip!

Hi Kiddo!
You are officially 11 weeks today and we get to see you tomorrow! WOOHOO. Over 25% done cooking!

Well, you survived your first road trip this weekend! We left Saturday about noon and got home late last night at 10. We ate at the burger joint I love - the Nook and I think you really liked the burger. Despite being stuffed when I left, we were hungry a few hours later so I think you sucked in that burger just like your brothers did last year.

We had some rain at the soccer game and the Thunder lost but your cousin Brian did score the games only goal! Of course, we had lots of critique for him when we got home - he doesn't milk his injuries enough to get them properly called as fouls. haha.




We celebrated Great Gramma's birthday with cake and singing. When your Aunt Val shares the pictures, I will add one of Great Gramma blowing out her candles. She didn't appreciate me being sassy when I said she had enough hot air to blow them out. :) Speaking of great gramma, remember when I told you that she wouldn't beat you? Now, I am not so sure. She smacked me again this weekend because I told you all those secrets about her. Better be extra careful because her hand whips out and smacks you and you don't even see it coming. :)



I was so tired Saturday night that we didn't get to stay up and play games. On Sunday, we had brunch together and it was time to hit the road. We felt like we hardly got to see Brian and Erica so we will definitely have to head back up there this summer and spend some time with them. On the way home, we hit road construction and it delayed our travels. Then, we stopped at the outlets for your dad to go shopping. They didn't end up having anything he wanted so it turned into a free for fall for your mom to go shopping. We got some ultra cute summer stuff :)



I promised you that I would tell you about your Uncle Brian when I got home but I will save that for another day. Tomorrow, we will have news to share from the doctor & hopefully a photo. Then, I can fill you in on those Cvilikas boys. Bye for now Kiddo!

5:30?

Hi Kiddo! I think I had a talk with your brothers last year but I guess I hadn't had it with you yet. I didn't want to repeat my posts to them because I figured you could read their book to get my sage advice and wisdom. :) However, this post bears repeating so we get off on the right foot together. Your mom loves sleep. Power (read 2-3 hour) naps, sleeping late, sleeping long - I love it all. So, when i get up for no apparent reason before the crack of dawn, I have to feel you are conspiring against me and we have to put a stop to that. We operate on a minimum of 8:30 in this body, ok? Let's not have to have this chat again. Love, your (tired) Mom.

Pool Party

Hi kiddo! Tonight, your mom got out of the house, got her body in a swimsuit and went to Morgan's pool party. We were supposed to go to Minnesota tonight but we decided to go tomorrow and took your cousins to the pool party. It was a lot of fun and it may have even inspired your lazy mom to want to go to the gym to swim. We will see how that goes next week :) Before I get started on one of my novels (which I am sure you are enjoying because what kid would not like to read their mom's boring and wordy musings), I want to let you know that I think you are starting to cut me some slack in the nausea department. I am starting to have patches of time that I forget about being pregnant and being nauseous. To even fathom going to the gym is a new thought. So, I think I am on the downward side of the nausea hill. Knock on wood!

Let me tell you a little bit about water. I love water - swimming, scuba diving, water parks. I love it all. But, it didn't really start that way. It took me 7 times to pass beginning swim lessons. I don't think I am exaggerating either. However, I consider myself to be a strong swimmer now and I will do everything in my power to make you a strong swimmer as well. As soon as it is logical, we will be taking you to lessons - even if it is just to blow bubbles in the water! I hope that you come to love the pool, lakes, oceans and water parks as much as I do. Your dad, well, I don't think he enjoys the pool or lakes or water parks but he sure does love to go scuba diving and I know he is already figuring out how long it is before he can get you certified.

Because I love to do so many water activities (and your dad gets drug along), I really wanted Andrew to know how to swim. Most times, we end up taking him to fun places with us. we enrolled him in swim lessons at the Y. For over a year, he went every week. Most of the time, your dad took him. I went in the beginning then I would go occasionally. In the beginning, he wasn't much of a swimmer. He had to repeat his first class - but, that is 5 times less than your mom had to take it. After a few sessions, I took him and I couldn't even believe it. That kid who would have drown in a bathtub was swimming the full length of the pool. I was near tears because I was so proud of him. I had never felt that emotion before - the feeling of pride in someone else's accomplishment & knowing that I had a small part in making it happen. Now, he is like a fish. He went with us tonight and we didn't even have to watch him. He was on the diving board and the slide and he is confident in the water.

Then, there is your cousin Tyler. Well, Tyler is younger - he is going to be 3 soon. Some background on Tyler - he is a fussy pants. He cries at us a lot. He used to scream when we would even go near him. I think that he is some kind of super genius because I swear he knows how it hurts my feelings when he acts that way and he does it on purpose. He will run away from me then he will turn around and give me a smile that melts my heart - just flirting with me :) So, we decided to get him enrolled in swim lessons a little earlier. It was a young kids class that an adult participated in. I really enjoyed the Saturday mornings with Tyler. I felt like it gave us time with him and I got to really be close to him in the pool - he was scared and I was the only familiar face so he held on tight. He would be fussy when I picked him up and when we first got there but he would adapt to the water and end up having fun. We only made it to one session because the hassles of getting him there and the early Saturday mornings got to be too much. I also really doubted if he was enjoying himself. One day, your dad called me all excited. I didn't know why he was in such a good mood. He said that Tyler goes into the bathtub and starts talking about me. He says "Tete" and "KickKickKick" like we did in class. Oh my gosh kiddo, I was in shock and I was so full of emotions. It made me realize that he probably did sort of like me, he knew who I was and he was learning something at swim lessons. Hearing my name had never sounded so sweet! We took Tyler tonight too. Your dad picked him up and he screamed the entire way from his house to ours to the pool and for about 1/2 hour when I got him in the pool. Then, he mellowed out and started having a good time. He still clung to me in the water - which, I have to admit, I kind of enjoy since it is rare that I get to hold him like that! Debbie strapped a life jacket on him and we threw him down the slide. He didn't cry or anything. I got out of the pool later to go on the slide and he started saying my name. It always tickles my heart when he says my name. I think that once he stopped screaming and he realized he was stuck with us, he had a good time.

Anyway, kiddo, I share this with you for a few reasons. One, I hope that you are close to your cousins even though I really do believe that you are a girl :) Two, I hope that you will have a true love for water like me. Maybe if I start some swimming while you are cooking in there, that will help too. Three, after thinking about my experiences with your cousins, it makes it unimaginable as to what my life will be like when you are here. To know that I will have a large part in how you grow up, seeing your victories & successes, hearing you talk & say mama for the first time is so overwhelming to me. You know how I told you yesterday that I am not good at emotions & I hope that you break me of that? As I write tonight, I can't imagine that you WON'T break me of that. Those two small moments that changed my heart with your cousins cannot compare to having you grow up in my life full time and I can't wait!

Tomorrow, off to Minnesota to see Uncle Brian play some soccer. When I get home, I will tell you about your Uncle Brian and how he isn't really your uncle but you can call him that anyway :)

Great Gramma Lang

Hi kiddo! Today is your Great Gramma Lang's Birthday so it gives me an opportunity to give you all the scoop on her so you can get started out on the right foot. Gramma turns 76 today! She has had a rough year this year with your Great Grampa Lang being sick and dying but she is a fighter! She is running her big old house on her own and she is mowing everyday just like Grampa would.

I would say that I am more like your Great Gramma Lang than I am any other member of my family. Your gramma is stubborn and doesn't forget those trespasses against her. Sorry kiddo, but your mom is the same way. Better watch your Ps & Qs around us.

Gramma has very high expectations out of her family and I already have the highest expectations out of you! It isn't like Gramma expected any of us to be doctors but she always expected us to give our best. That is how I feel about you too. Your Gramma Debbie asked me why I turned out to be a good kid. That was an easy answer for me - your Great Gramma scares me - and she still does. haha. Gramma would never beat you or anything - well, I do think she has swatted me a few times in the last year for being lippy - but I just would never want to disappoint her. I would not want to have to face the look and see that disappointment on her face. Grampa either - the look of shame over the top of his glasses - you just don't want to face it so you do your best to avoid it. Gramma may be more mellow to you since you are going to be all cuddly and an infant but don't worry, I have mastered the look to give you if you screw up :)

Gramma doesn't show a ton of emotion - I think I can probably count on one hand how many times I have seen her upset. Unfortunately, I don't show a ton of emotion either. I am working on it and I am hoping you will break that spell :)

Whether she would admit it or not, Gramma is SASSY. She shakes her head at how lippy and silly I can be sometimes but I am thinking I get that from her. Since Grampa passed away, she says whatever comes to her mind - her filter is gone. She is quick witted and sharp with her tongue. I asked her why this was coming out of her so late in life and she said that she had to put in double the feedback because she has to make up for what Grampa would have said. It was hilarious but I don't think Grampa would have said some of the things that Gramma comes up with :)

Your gramma has a huge heart - she would do anything for any of her family. I don't think any of her grandkids could ever say that we wanted something and she knew about it and she didn't pick it up next time she was out shopping. Gramma has spoiled me rotten on holidays, birthdays and many days in between. There were two unexpected gifts that were probably the most heartfelt unexpected gifts I have ever gotten. When your dad and I got engaged, Gramma gave me a pair of earrings. They were not expensive but it was so touching that she got me an engagement gift and those earrings meant a lot to me. When your dad and I moved in together (yes, we did live in sin together before we got married and I won't judge you if you do), Gramma gave us 2-3 boxes full of Christmas ornaments and decorations. I don't know that I fully appreciated it when she gave it to us but man, oh, man, Christmas decorations are so expensive and those boxes decorated our house! The gift was so unexpected and thoughtful. Every Easter, Halloween, Valentine's Day and Thanksgiving I would get a card with $1 or $2 in it. I asked her this past Easter where my card was with my $1 and she rolled her eyes at me. She basically said get over it, I am an adult now. Remember when I told you she was sassy?

When I was little, I would go over Gramma's house on Friday nights when your Grampa Keith and Gramma Debbie went bowling. We would have dinner and watch TV. Gramma would sit in her rocking chair as we watched Love Boat and Fantasy Island. If I was spending the night, she would make up the couch for me with a sheet, blankets and pillows. If I was going home, she would always leave a quarter on the table for me. That was a big deal for you mom kiddo!! A quarter won't be a lot of money to you but it was in the 70s and early 80s. Gramma has her rocking chair up in the rafters in the garage. I told her I would like it for the nursery. That rocker means a lot to me - it just reminds me of all things Great Gramma!

I saw a whole different side to Gramma this past year. When Grampa was sick with cancer, he was really sick for the last few weeks. Gramma took care of him with a patience and love that I hadn't seen in her. I am sure she was the same way with all of us grandkids but I was too little to remember that. Poor Grampa was on a lot of medicine and he was kind of goofy during parts of the day. It didn't phase Gramma at all. He would ask for food, then not eat it and she would just roll her eyes and take it back. :) When she talked to him with such patience, love and concern, it almost broke my heart because I knew that their time together was ending soon. Even with Grampa sick and on all sorts of medicine, he would still look at his visitors and tell us Gramma was picking on him again!

I know that your Great Gramma really wants an excuse to give me that rocker and she wants you here as badly as we do. She is nervous because of our history and I know that she is praying for your health. If you need any more incentive to stay in there cooking, that woman will love you up when you get here! Maybe you could give her incentive to bump up the Valentine's day cards to have $5 now :)